I say again (gee I have these conversations a lot - one day it will sink in).
In an episode of Yes Minister, Humpy has a good secret. Bernard leans over to him hoping for the secret. Humpy say "Bernard, can you keep a secret?" Bernard says yes, and leans closer waiting for the secret. Humpy then says a classic line "GOOD - SO CAN I !!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and walks off.
Now when people talk to me confidentially and dont want their name blurted out, I live by that. Confidential is confidential, no matter how much you pester. I seek their opinion for the sound advice they give. And they give that advice, knowing they wont be made public.
my WORD IS MY BOND.
this might be hard to grasp
But I can keep secrets too
Craftbrewer
Graham L Sanders
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