Barrel21,
Great job with the build.
I'm starting to think your pump might be the problem. You mentioned earlier that you thought the LBP was flowing too slowly, but mine only trickles slowly over the top of the pot when running (4L/min at a guess). I think the higher flow rate is probably compacting the malt up against the top plate. Once the flow starts to reduce your pressure is going to spike and compact it even further. You're right in saying that the reduced grain depth of a larger pot will help, but I've made a malt pipe extension and can run over 9kg in the BigW pot diameter which is a lot more in grain depth than what your current setup has. Maybe look at throttling your pump back if possible or putting a bypass that you can regulate to reduce the flow rate. This could be as simple as a couple of holes in your pot beneath the bottom false bottom. You couldn't regulate this, but it would help reduce the maximum pressure reached as well. Just a thought if the larger pot doesn't work.
Cheers,
BB