Nice end to what was turning into a scary tale, sure to end in Woe.
I say this without trying to sound like a smart ass, but if you are unsure on how to mount a disc on a grinder, than you should not be using the said grinder.
A grinder is one of, if not the, most commonly abused and missused power tool, which can be a very bad thing, they will hurt you ALOT if you dont show them respect, they dont slow down when they hit flesh, I know, in fact I think they go faster, 20 years as a Plant mechanic has left me with many battle scars from grinders and such, they are not toys.
I am glad Mark has offered to help, if you cannot get to marks, I live in maitland, and would be happy to do it, I have all the tools required, along with all safety gear.
Please dont do yourself a PREVENTABLE injury, becasue you felt like saving some time.
I think I am lucky to still have all of my fingers left, scared as they may be, dont loose yours, or an eye, or a tooth or.....