i dont understand how adding cold water doesnt bring the temp down enough. put the water in the fridge before hand?
It's a straightforward heat balance.
For example, if you take 5 litres at 100 deg C and add 5 litres at 0 deg C,
then you get 10 litres at 50 deg C.
With a kit, you get around 4 litres at 70 deg C ( assuming the kit was warmed to help pouring )
so if you just add 19 litres of tap water at 20 deg C the result is: ( 4x70 + 19x20 ) /23 = 28.7 deg C
The water in Melbourne is much cooler I assume, so it's not such a problemo.
Ice containes about 10 times the amount of 'coldness' as cooled fridge water, so even just 1 litre of ice
makes a huge difference.
Based on the above example, a simple test is to measure the temp of your tap water,
if it's above 19 deg C then you need some ice. Yes, you can cool the entire 19 litres to 4 deg,
but it's much easier to freeze 1 litre of ice than fit 19 litres into the kitchen fridge where SWMBO is
defrosting the dinner.
I did my first ever brew in February when I started, at the wort came out at 30 deg C.
I've learned a lot since then. I use sanitised ice-cream containers with lids, seem to work fine,
and always keep a few kg of ice waiting in the freezer just in case the brewing bug hits me,
and they come in handy to keep the esky cold for that unplanned picnic as well.