I have a 50lt BM and purchased for the same reasons as mentioned: set and forget nature, consistency, small footprint, plus we have 2 small kids around so being able to put the BM in a place little hands can't touch is important for me.
I was in the process of trying to make a single vessel recirc clone when my wife decided to buy the BM for me. Her logic was "how long will it take and how much will it cost to build?"
So we bought one and never looked back.
I have not done big beers with it (nothing over 1.065) and have no intention to do so. If I ever get the urge to have a RIS I'll go and buy it.
As for the thought that a BM is hands off, you still have to design your beer, fill it with water, crack your grain, mash in, sparge, remove grain and cube/chill. The only hands off aspect to a BM is the mash time/temp which some 3V systems have anyway.
With my BM, I bought time. Make more beer, less frequently, and get back an hour or two during the mash when I can be doing something else. Plus the missus is happy so happy wife, happy life.
I should also point out that the beers do not taste any different than my BIAB versions.