Here is the mystery paste. It's called Gochujang but if you can't find it and have to ask apparently the Koreans pronounce it Kochujung.
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Apparently it cost us $6.10. Up here we can only get the 500g size, Teri says she would buy the 250g if she could get it as it lasts ages.
I have never eaten this at a restaurant but now she is all embarassed that people are comparing hers to the professional versions. Apparently the restaurant version can have the spicy sauce on top with all the different ingredients and it is served on a bed of plain rice so when you mix it the whole lot ends up spicy. Ours has the paste mixed through the rice first with a little sesame oil to taste and the plain ingredients dumped on that.
Minced pork, supposed to be beef but I am a weirdo, is just stir fried with a little soy. Egg is just scrambled and folded. The bean sprouts were mixed with a little kim chi juice. The carrots are yummo, they are stir fried with sesame seeds, obviously but also sesame oil.