hmmm. good question. just guessing but here goes.
the difference would be that diastatic extract still has enzymes which can convert starches to sugars.
non-diastatic, as the name suggests, does not.
this would mean you can use the diastatic extract with adjuncts to convert their starches to sugars.
i would guess the dry and liquid extracts we get is non-diastatic only because i have never heard otherwise. never really thought of asking at the hbs, and i had to check my homebrew book just to get this far. hope it helps.
joe