If you have the coupler and the spear hasn't already been sabotaged, just drop 2-3 5C pieces into the bottom of the well and action the coupler - then unscrew the whole spear assembly. The extra length added by the coins de-latches the locking device.
I think the problem the OP has is no coupler and a prefucked keg.
Mark
I think the problem the OP has is no coupler and a prefucked keg.
Mark