Despite what I've seen a number of times on various forums:
- Campden tablets (usually potassium metabisulphite, sometimes sodium metabisulphite) are used to kill off various unwanted wild yeasts and bacteria, but don't work on normal cider, beer or wine yeasts. In fact, traditional cider making in the uk included burning sulphur inside barrels before the addition of the pressed juice to kill off unwanted wild yeasts but leaving the desired wild yeasts to thrive and ferment the juice
- Sorbates retard yeast growth, and stop reproduction, but don't kill existing yeast. So it's use reduces but does not eliminate the risk of refermentation by itself. It is usually used (in cider) in conjunction with filtering and campden tablets to produce sweeter ciders where pasteurisation is not appropriate and keeving was not practised (it's rare in the UK nowadays) or was unsuccessful.
- Lactose simply does not work in cider. Personal opinion, but a cider sweetened with lactose just tastes weird
A lot of small UK cider makers simply ferment to dryness and backsweeten with sucralose or another artificial sweetener to produce semi-sweet and sweet versions, and that works on a Homebrew scale as well, but care is required as a little goes a long way. If you go that route, sucralose would be my preference.
At least one of the bigger 'real ' cider makers relies on apple selection, malo-lactic fermentation (MLF), maturation on oak and blending for its sweeter ciders. Not sure how that translates to a Homebrew scale, but with MLF cultures and oak staves available, it's certainly possible to get some of the way there.
Flash pasteurisation is also used, as are centrifuges and the more traditional methods that mimick traditional champagne bottling methods. Keeving (basically a method to clear the juice and reduce nutrients before fermentation, resulting in a sweater tasting cider) is still popular in Normandy and Brittany, but seems to have died out in England