OK here's a summary of my gear and process:
I'm using a 40L concealed element Crown urn, using hte Craft Brewer bag for the grain, hopsock suspended during the boil where all hop additions go and I take it out at flameout. Use a stainless steel paint stirrer (based on BribieG's recommendation, much easier than the spoon). For temp I'm using a digital cooking thermometer, I tested against ice water and boiling water when I bought it (only 3 months ago) and it is as accurate as it should be (+/- 1C). The urn is lagged with a camping mat, and I sit a circle of the same material wrapped in foil on top of the mash before I put the urn lid on. I lose about 1-1.5C per hour.
Process has been the same for these two brews, here it is:
1. Get required water volume into urn by transferring in cube. Water comes out of the laundry hot tap at 60C. I've been using weight (1L =1kg) to get the water volume by weighing on digital scales and subtracting the weight of the cube (1.4 kg)
2. Set up the bag in the kettle, add 1 tablespoon 5.2 ph stabiliser and mash in when I have got to 2.5C above the target temp (that's how much heat I lose), using the paint stirrer making sure I break up any dough balls etc.
3. Cover as above and wait 60m, then open up and stir everything up and take a glass full from the top (outside the bag so it's not full of grain) for hydrometer measurement.
4. Swear because it's 5 or 6 points off, turn on the heat again to bring back up to temp while stirring then cover again and leave for another 30m.
5. Measure again, it's OK this time (for the 2nd brew anyway, first one was still off, but as I said earlier the grain was a bit old), stir while getting up to mashout temp, then hoist the bag, drain & squeeze while it's coming up to boiling.
My 70% figure is into the fermenter (slightly more for the one below), but if I stopped the mash at 60m it would only be about 65%