If it is definitely not from autolysis (ie Caprylic) then it could be;
Ethyl Capriylate (AKA Ethyl Octanoate): Floral, Fruity (apple,apricot, banana, pear, pineapple), soapy, sweet, vinous (brandy, wine-like), waxy. Present in all beers, although concentrations vary widely. Concentrations are higher in Belgian beers. Perception Threshold: 0.01-1.5 mg/L.
It can be increased by the yeast strain used, poor yeast management (under pitching/wrong fermentation temps/low oxygen levels/ oxygenating green beer etc...), wild yeast infection, Insufficient yeast growth, FAN/Amino acid deficiency, Mineral deficiency (Zinc/Calcium etc) or high hydrostatic pressure during fermentation (commercial problem mostly).
It can be decreased by the opposite of most of the above and proper separation of wort from hot/cold break. Aging will decrease or eliminate the Ester over a period of time (can be over a year depending on how much there is. You will need to determine when this is achieved by tasting).
I'm thinking in your case it could be a combination of the yeast variety you used, wrong conditions for the yeast (what yeast, what pitching rate and what Ferm. temps did you use?) and perhaps your personal taste perception (can others also taste what you taste?).