PistolPatch
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I was scared starting this thread but also compelled. As I said, in my original post, I don't have complete answers.
Thanks to those of you who have responded here in a way that reflects you are human - you feel things, have empathy for others, you can put yourself in their shoes. You guys have all written beautifully. And beauty, in my sense of the word, is what being human is all about. Their is little beauty in ugliness but there is always at least some beauty in the ugliest of things.
Before I write any more on beauty, I want to acknowledge strongbeer and ThirstyBoy. I had no idea what to do when I saw strongbeer's post. I found it shocking and kept thinking that I was missing something. Maybe it was a joke of some sort that my brain couldn't see? Thank you ThirstyBoy for writing such a beautiful and forceful reply to strongbeer.
Strongbeer: I'm going to thank you as well for writing your apology. It was a bit of a relief to see that you admitted that you had crossed the line and this deserves some credit. There are many schools of thought on whether genes or environment affect or limit aspects or your personality. What is known is that if someone has a belief, they will look for supposed facts that back that belief up...
We all get emails that are anti-ethnic groups. Many are well-written but, with a simple google search, you will find they are ********. (Refugees here do not get hand-outs but from the emails you get, you will be lead to believe they live in paradise. As for the anti-Muslim emails, I can't even begin to start refuting all of those.)
Strongbeer, I would ask you to do a few things which I think are sensible...
1. Do not watch, "A Current Affair," and "Today Tonight": I don't mind writing here that most of what these programs display are at least contrived and sometimes, totally fraudulent. (An old next door neighbour of mine was actually paid to appear on one of the programs as being someone who won a million dollars in the Lottery and then, "lost it all." It was all pure ********.)
2. Watch "Media Watch" religiously: If you think the above experience of mine is incredible (can't be believed), watch this program.
3. Go to the ABC Website: We should be very proud of the ABC. The ABC journalists often risk their lives to report a story accurately. You will learn a lot more from 'Four Corners' and 'Foreign Correspondent' than from 'Today Tonight' or 'A Current Affair.' (It is the ABC who is responsible for there even being a possibility of the smugglers on this boat being arrested.)
So, do some research and get informed.
Whatever you do strongbeer, don't even think, ever again, about asking me to put put myself in your shoes (in your current state of mind) for even a split second. This whole post here has taken me about two hours to write (so far) and it is soley aimed at making you try and think differently.
What I think you really need to do, if you are interested in humanity, is stop and think, just like I asked you to do in my original post, about how serious this issue is. I have no easy solutions. Your willingness to apologise and think even a little on this issue is encouraging. There will be many others out there thinking like you but who haven't bothered to post.
Your post though to me, exhibits a primitiveness of thinking. Your post encourages hate whilst the others encourage love. History shows that hate only succeeds on occasion and for a very short time. Hate, biologically and ecologically, rarely makes sense.
So, what is the rationale behind your hate or dis-approval? You seem to think that refugees can come here and get heaps of money. This is pure fiction and this fiction can be easily sourced and verified. So strongbeer, did you do any research at alll?
The more important question to me is why are you even hating? Hating is very easy and requires no skill. Investigating, loving, honouring, exploring, celebrating others etc, requires a lot more thought and skill than hating.
Hating is the most primitive and least successful human behaviour I know of. I actually can't understand how hating can be fun beside developing some primitive camaraderie amongst like-minded cave-men and women. To me, hating is the most primitive way of living. The word, "religion," actually means 'way of living'.
So, strongbeer, what is your, 'way of living'? Is it based on love or hate? Should you teach your children and grandchildren your philosophy? How will that serve them?
Thanks to those of you who have responded here in a way that reflects you are human - you feel things, have empathy for others, you can put yourself in their shoes. You guys have all written beautifully. And beauty, in my sense of the word, is what being human is all about. Their is little beauty in ugliness but there is always at least some beauty in the ugliest of things.
Before I write any more on beauty, I want to acknowledge strongbeer and ThirstyBoy. I had no idea what to do when I saw strongbeer's post. I found it shocking and kept thinking that I was missing something. Maybe it was a joke of some sort that my brain couldn't see? Thank you ThirstyBoy for writing such a beautiful and forceful reply to strongbeer.
Strongbeer: I'm going to thank you as well for writing your apology. It was a bit of a relief to see that you admitted that you had crossed the line and this deserves some credit. There are many schools of thought on whether genes or environment affect or limit aspects or your personality. What is known is that if someone has a belief, they will look for supposed facts that back that belief up...
We all get emails that are anti-ethnic groups. Many are well-written but, with a simple google search, you will find they are ********. (Refugees here do not get hand-outs but from the emails you get, you will be lead to believe they live in paradise. As for the anti-Muslim emails, I can't even begin to start refuting all of those.)
Strongbeer, I would ask you to do a few things which I think are sensible...
1. Do not watch, "A Current Affair," and "Today Tonight": I don't mind writing here that most of what these programs display are at least contrived and sometimes, totally fraudulent. (An old next door neighbour of mine was actually paid to appear on one of the programs as being someone who won a million dollars in the Lottery and then, "lost it all." It was all pure ********.)
2. Watch "Media Watch" religiously: If you think the above experience of mine is incredible (can't be believed), watch this program.
3. Go to the ABC Website: We should be very proud of the ABC. The ABC journalists often risk their lives to report a story accurately. You will learn a lot more from 'Four Corners' and 'Foreign Correspondent' than from 'Today Tonight' or 'A Current Affair.' (It is the ABC who is responsible for there even being a possibility of the smugglers on this boat being arrested.)
So, do some research and get informed.
Whatever you do strongbeer, don't even think, ever again, about asking me to put put myself in your shoes (in your current state of mind) for even a split second. This whole post here has taken me about two hours to write (so far) and it is soley aimed at making you try and think differently.
What I think you really need to do, if you are interested in humanity, is stop and think, just like I asked you to do in my original post, about how serious this issue is. I have no easy solutions. Your willingness to apologise and think even a little on this issue is encouraging. There will be many others out there thinking like you but who haven't bothered to post.
Your post though to me, exhibits a primitiveness of thinking. Your post encourages hate whilst the others encourage love. History shows that hate only succeeds on occasion and for a very short time. Hate, biologically and ecologically, rarely makes sense.
So, what is the rationale behind your hate or dis-approval? You seem to think that refugees can come here and get heaps of money. This is pure fiction and this fiction can be easily sourced and verified. So strongbeer, did you do any research at alll?
The more important question to me is why are you even hating? Hating is very easy and requires no skill. Investigating, loving, honouring, exploring, celebrating others etc, requires a lot more thought and skill than hating.
Hating is the most primitive and least successful human behaviour I know of. I actually can't understand how hating can be fun beside developing some primitive camaraderie amongst like-minded cave-men and women. To me, hating is the most primitive way of living. The word, "religion," actually means 'way of living'.
So, strongbeer, what is your, 'way of living'? Is it based on love or hate? Should you teach your children and grandchildren your philosophy? How will that serve them?