I think all new mothers get a bit tired, grumpy and depressed at first but I think the key symptom is an inability to bond with the baby. The vast majority of mothers are fine so don't panic at this stage but if you don't see those maternal instincts kick in once she gets home then try and talk to her about it and don't let it fester.Secondly, for those with experience in this, as I said, I am about to become a Dad for the first time, and have very little experience with babies/mothers or any of this stuff. Obviously i'm nervous/anxious about the whole thing, but I'm terrified of something like Steve's situation happening to me. What are some of the signs I need to look out for and how can I help my wife through these early stages?
Sounds like a hugely stressful time, Steve, but also seems like you are getting through it. It must be really hard to be a working single parent suddenly, with a baby to take care of too. But getting some time by yourself one day a week (to sleep as well) will help a lot I'm sure. (Brewing?) And now you can see some light at the end of the tunnel perhaps. Hope you can keep see it through and get your wife/family/life back.
Just found this thread & want to offer my best wishes to you & your family, Steve - I know we don't know each other that well, but pick up the phone to me any time mate if you fancy a chat...a problem shared can be so much easier to cope with & just a change a voice can work wonders when you're down.
Chin up mate...it'll come good I'm sure.
Cheers Ross...
You able to make the club meeting Thursday? I can arrange a lift for you, you sound like yuou need to get out for a few hours.
Beers
Matt
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