Well, I ended up leaving the batch for another 4 days in secondary on dry hop, then crash chilled it until yesterday.
That totals 10 days on dry hops, and I'm not sure if that is the cause or not, but there is absolutely NO bad flavour in this beer at all now...
It could be that the yeast has cleaned up, or of course that the dry hopping has masked any detectable flavours...
I'm bottle conditioning them now, and actually looking forward to tasting this beer.
I think I'll brew it again, just to be sure that the experiment/stuff-up wasn't detrimental to the beer... Heck, it can only get better, right?
The new beer I brewed up yesterday was chilled to 19.9C, and TBH I just pitched at that temp. I can't imagine there would be anything wrong with that.
It had that classic lag for 20-ish hours, not 8 hours like this beer did.
As QLD Kev said, if your wort can get chilled down before the main part of the fermentation starts, you're probably going to be OK.
I'm going to be chilling my beers down to that 20C mark from hereon in though
First I used the garden hose down to 40C. Then the esky with ice recirculated from 40C to 20C. Pretty happy with how that worked, though all together it did take about 30-40 minutes in total (~15min with tap water on a slow trickle, then ~20 with the ice recirculation). I will be finding containers that I can drop the ice into the slurry, rather than bottles that keep the ice in and slightly away from the water that is being recirculated.
Cheers,
Martin