JGriffin
I went through the same problem that you are going through, though I lost 5 brews in a row before I lost my shit and forked out for 2 glass carboys. Best move I ever made, now the old fermenters are for holding grain. First thing I did with the new fermenters was chuck out my old racking hose, I have a very strong suspicion that was the culprit. My beers went sour with white stuff floating ontop, I asked on Grumpy's what it could be, and from memory, the consensus seemed to be pediococcus. I ,too, was pedantic about cleaning, and always used bleach to sterilize my ferms before use. I know that it could get very expensive replacing all yer ferms and cubes, but basically every batch lost is about the value of a fermenter, and I think I saw a thread here advertising cubes for $2 a pop. Everyone else has given so much good info, so my opinion probably will make litte difference, but were it me, I would start by making some new yeast starters (after getting some one shot or similar), get some new racking hoses, and maybe even a couple of glass carboys, and some new cubes, or at the very least, as someone suggested, start eliminating the ferms/cubes one by one, there has to be at least a few that have no infection.
Hope this helps in some way, cause I would hate you to go through the pain of losing a fourth and fifth brew like silly old me did!
All the best
Trent