Depwnds on what your missus does. If shes a stripper youve already got one and id go the bar maid. Actually I pour my own brers better than them so the stripper.
I thoight this was a bucks party question. In which case its always stripper as a strippeer is happy to play bar maid as it cuts down on their performance time. Wherre as a barmaid wont double as a stripper. Last bucks party I went to they got a stripper. Ended up she was a topless barmaid... who wore a bra. So I used me connections to get a lst minute stripper who came over and was happy to to strip, play bar wench, give shots to those playing poker and won a hand etc.